But that isn’t what works. Instead, my job as a writer and a coach is to get inside your head, recognize the reality that exists there, and work to reshape it in a way that moves you closer to what you want to be. The magic doesn’t happen with what I give you, but what you do with it inside yourself. This means that the vast majority of the time I spend on writing doesn’t involve my fingers tapping madly away on a keyboard. Nor does the lion’s share of my coaching involves giving cues, talking to athletes, or demonstrating techniques.

It involves intense, persistent observation. The empathic connection between writers and readers, and coaches and athletes cannot be created any other way. It’s easy to skip this step and write finger-wagging articles telling you to do this or stop doing that. I’ve written a few of those pieces myself, but they aren’t the work I’m most proud of. The most profound writers and talented coaches meet their subjects where they are, and lead them in a direction; they don’t stand in the pulpit and rain down fire and brimstone.

It’s with all that in mind that I’ve spent the past couple years shaping the following piece of advice:

Stop. PRing. Everything.

Now let’s dig into what that means, and why it should matter to you.

The PR Arms Race

There are even more specific PRs. You can have a comeback PR, a post-injury PR, an annual PR, or an event or course PR. You can PR benchmark workouts (what’s your Fran time?), Strava segments, or even your diet (I PR’d my macros, brah!). If it can be measured, it can be PR’d, and we do love to ring that bell.

Hell, I might be chief among sinners. I’m a runner, cyclist, weightlifter, and CrossFitter. I have an entire spreadsheet full of PRs, with entries for running distances (100m, 400m, 800m, 1 mile, 5km, 5mi, 10k, 15k, half and full marathons), power lifts (overhead press, deadlift, front and back squats), Olympic lifts (snatch, clean and jerk), and a smattering of bike distances (longest ride, longest climb, 10mi TT). I generally don’t track my benchmark WOD PRs, but that’s mostly because I forget to write them down at the gym, and there’s not a results page to look them up on later.

The Semantic Danger of the PR

The trouble with trying to PR everything, all the time is fourfold:

1. How exactly are you going to PR your rest days? You are taking rest days, right?
2. How contrived are you willing to make something and still call it a PR?
3. What effect does that mindset have in your training?
4. What happens when the PRs stop coming?

I get it. Most of us don’t go to the gym to just move around a bit and get sweaty. We go there to make progress, and the best way to see progress is to track what you do. I think logging workouts is a very useful practice that can help us stay on track and serve as a reality check against some of the stories we tell ourselves about our fitness.

The turnover from useful tool to detrimental obsession happens when our pursuit of the PR causes our workouts morph from a means to an end, to an end unto itself. When we’re trying to PR something, the mental risk/reward calculus changes, and we start to take risks we don’t need to. We’re more likely to compromise our technique to hit one more rep, to sprint into Zone 5 when we were supposed to be on a recovery ride or to bury ourselves in the pain cave again when we could barely drag ourselves out of bed after our last workout.

PRs are Expensive

Progress is addictive, and intensity can become a drug. I’m a recovering addict myself, as my wife (the most wonderful woman in the world and my personal sports psychologist) will tell you. I was one of those guys who would drive himself until he was injured, then grit my teeth and drive a little further. To this day, if I haven’t had a hit from that PR pipe in a while, I get grouchy. 

The thing I’ve come to understand as I’ve matured as an athlete is that a PR often comes at a high physiological and psychological price. Maximum effort, especially if you’re a seasoned athlete, takes a toll on muscle fibers, mental resolve, your nervous and endocrine systems, and your overall wellbeing. It’s not unusual for a PR attempt to cost me two nights of sleep: one the night before, because I’m nervous, and then the night after because I’m so destroyed that I can’t get comfortable.

How often are you willing to pull that trigger? If you do it too often, you end up compromising the stimulus you worked out to achieve. If you can’t squat heavy for 10 days because your back is wrecked from your spur-of-the-moment 3RM attempt at what was your 1RM two weeks ago, did you do yourself any good? Conversely, when everything you do is a PR, how do you harness that next-level intensity when it really matters?

Curb Your PR Obsession

I propose that we negotiate a new relationship with our PRs. I can’t tell you what to track, and I’m certainly in no position to set a number of things you should count as a PR, but the following guidelines might help you bring your PR obsession under control.

Write down your primary goals. They should be counted as PRs, and anything that is one standard deviation from them can be, as well. For instance, if I have a goal for my clean and jerk 1RM, I can track a PR for my front squat. But only choose one PR for that accessory, whether that’s a 1RM or a 3RM, based on your coach’s training philosophy for you.

You can still log and track everything else, but be cautious about applying that PR label. If a PR happens during the course of your training, that’s great! But it should only be something you aim toward occasionally, and only when it is one of your primary goals. If you’re the type who can’t track data without it burning in the back of your mind during your workouts, then stop tracking data. I promise, the training will work anyway, even if you don’t write down every detail of it. Instead, record qualitative details of your workout (i.e., heavy triples on squats today, hips achy, bar moved fast though).

Day 312 Of 360

Deadlift:

5 x 5 @ (up to) 70% of 2RM (each with a full 2/1000 @ top)

1 x 10 @ 60% (use double overhand grip)

1 x 20 @ BW (using single kettlebell)

If sets require interruption, make as minor an adjustment as needed and complete the next uninterrupted. When the scheme is listed as “1 x 10″, it always refers to “Sets” x “Reps”.

Reminder: Position and execution always govern weight.

If an appropriately heavy single kettlebell is not available, adjust to 1 x 20 suitcase deadlift to reach designated weight.

Today: 

Perform 10 push-up and 

5 underhand bodyweight row immediately following each set of deadlift, and

rest as needed once the three movements are complete.

Then:

Kettlebell “Short swing”:

3 x 20 @ 60% of 5RM

2 x 20 @ (up to) 50%

As above, rest as earned between sets. If sets require interruption, make as minor an adjustment as needed and complete the next uninterrupted.

“Short swing” simply denotes a heavy, short-range kettlebell swing with the intent of safely driving as much weight as structurally possible to just below chin height. Today, use weight designated above.

Kettlebell swing reminder: If we lose our strong hinge, back rounds, or legs fail to snap straight in the “drive” portion of the movement, adjust accordingly and continue safely.

And then, “Time under tension”:

20 Mace Good Morning @ self-scaled (broken into 2 x 10 or 4 x 5 as needed) + 

100 1-arm kettlebell swing @ 25lb. W, 35lb. M (cool-down weight)

Switch arms in 5-rep sets; If designated weight is not a cool-down weight, adjust accordingly.

Day 311 Of 360

Kettlebell back squat:

10 x 2L, 2R @ as heavy as possible in each set

Rest as needed between sets. If designated/ chosen weight requires interruption, make a minor adjustment and continue. When the scheme is listed as “10 x 2L, 2R”, it always refers to “Sets” x “Reps”. Reminder: Although directive is as heavy as possible, sound position and full range of motion always govern weight.

Note: Today, if chosen weight is truly “as heavy as possible in each set”, adjustments will be needed in a 10-round piece.

Then, 5 rounds of:

2 Kettlebell clean (Left)

1 Kettlebell front squat (Left)

2 Kettlebell clean (Right)

1 Kettlebell front squat (Right)

(Up to) 1 minute rest

Today, and when no other qualifier is present, kettlebell clean happens from the floor. Use the grip/ hand position that allows for the safe lifting of the most weight. Front squat begins at top of second clean. Pause and brace in an organized rack position, and then squat. Weight/ output govern rest- take what you earn.

And then, quickly and attentively:

20 Kettlebell high pull @ heaviest clean weight from above

20 Goblet squat @ 25lb. W, 35lb. M

20 Medicine ball throw @ 14/16lb. W, 16/20lb. M

20 calories Airdyne

No designated rest here- if needed at all, keep it short and specific, and take it during high pull/ squat sets. Safety considered, there is a great value to making yourself move in simple conditioning drills.

Mind your mind, hustle on the switches, push the pace. Rest when you’re done. Walk when you’re home.

It’s getting darker, but don’t be frightened; One light dims as another one brightens.