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5 Strategies for Athletic Success

6/29/2018

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As Gandhi once famously said, “Your beliefs become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, your values become your destiny.” The man could not have only been a great civil rights leader, but also an amazing coach. It is imperative for athletes to understand how closely confidence is linked to success. The following five strategies are things coaches seldom talk about, but when they are applied to your daily grind they can make all the difference in your overall confidence and your long-term success as an athlete.  

 

 

1. Choose Your Circle Wisely

Who you surround yourself with has a tremendous influence on who you will become and is reflective of who you are now. These will be the people who are either going to the gym with you to get in an extra workout or the ones egging you on to come to a party with them. The bottom line is for your circle of friends is: do they make you better or do they bring you down?

 

Action Strategy: Set several personal goals for practice or training with a trusted teammate or workout partner every day. They are now your accountability buddy and if they see you doing something that is not in alignment with your goals, they can call you out and vice versa. 

 

2. Seek the Truth

It takes a person of high character to actively seek out information that they may not want to hear but need to hear.  This is where your circle comes in to play. Surround yourself with people who care about you so much they are willing to tell you something you need to hear in order to help you, even if there is a risk it could make you mad or upset. Remember, it's never easy to hear difficult things, but opening yourself to opportunities of humility will ultimately make you better overall person and athlete. Here's the kicker though, you must be receptive to what they say and at all costs avoid shooting the messenger. You need to enlist the help of someone to give you a different perspective than your own. This is absolutely critical for your growth as an athlete and a person.

 

Action Strategy: List three people right now you can trust to honestly tell you something you need to hear. If you can't, it's time to start forming those relationships. 

 

3. Stay Hungry

No matter how much or how little success you are having at this moment, do not stop working. You have to believe in your ability to reach your goals and that your hard work will pay off—it always does. There is a massive difference between believing in yourself and being entitled to an outcome because you think you've worked hard for it. Again, does your circle keep it real with you?

 

Action Strategy: Write down your goal, then outline the goals you need to accomplish in the next month, and then finally goals you want to accomplish this week, all targeted toward reaching your overall goal. By laying these out in reverse order you establish your vision and then pave the way to it with small, achievable steps.

 

4. Have Selective Hearing

The one voice you need to be listening to, even if you are not in any way spiritual, is the voice of faith. Faith, or believing in yourself, is the voice that silences the critics and fans because they don't know your process. They don't know the sweat, blood, and tears that you put in; they don't know what you are working towards. And really, they don't know you.

 

Action Strategy: It’s darn near impossible not to hear what people outside of your circle say, so instead of walking around with earmuffs and deleting all social media, strengthen your selective hearing and toughen your skin. In other words, hear them, but don't listen, take it personally, or respond emotionally. Only you need to believe in yourself and your process. Actively work on positive self-talk so you begin to drown out the voice that tells you "I can't" with the voice that tells you "I can.”

 

5. Trust the Process

If you haven't noticed already, the four lessons before this are all interwoven in some way. Ultimately, these all constitute your process, and when you are confident that you are doing things the right way, which is in accordance with your values and vision, then you must trust that with persistent action and work, you will get to where you want to go.
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There will undoubtedly be times you are tested on this, and your tests may come when you aren't ready for them, that's why it is so important to have good people surrounding you that you can lean on and will help you. They are there not only to tell you what you need to hear but to be positive with you when you are having a hard time doing that for yourself. 

 

Action Strategies: 1) If your process ever starts to feel out of line with your values and vision, then re-evaluate and refine. 2) Build meaningful relationships. Be there for people when they need you because at some point you will need them as well.

 





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June 29, 2018 at 07:02PM
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Jeremy Potvin on Olympia Goals and Serving in the Armed Forces

6/29/2018

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Some people see a photo of IFBB pro Jeremy Potvin, and their first comment is, “Right, pal. Show me a picture of him that’s not Photoshopped.” So dramatic is Potvin’s waist-to-shoulder ratio that his body seems like, well, fake news.

But as fans of the IFBB Pro League physique division know, Potvin is for real. In an era when some bodybuilders are criticized for thick midsections and protruding bellies, Potvin displays the type of aesthetically stunning proportions that built the sport of bodybuilding in the Golden Age. As the growing popularity of the men’s physique and classic physique divisions prove, the Apollonian contours of the chiseled, tight midsection under flaring lats and cannonball delts are what most guys want to create for themselves. And this look becomes more desirable as summer kicks into high gear and bodies are on display at the beach and pool.

Army Strong

Potvin’s journey to pro bodybuilder is one of those unlikely success stories that begins with a skinny, shy teenager. Potvin weighed only 116 pounds (at a height of 5'6") when he graduated high school. Afterward, he joined the Army, following in the footsteps of his father, who is career military. After surviving boot camp, Potvin was deployed to Iraq. He began weight training—not to build muscle but as a coping mechanism. While stationed in Iraq for a year, he served in 183 missions, including some major operations.

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“We did quite a bit,” he says. “I saw my share of excitement over there.”

The training helped keep Potvin centered.

“In Iraq, I started working out as a way to relieve my stress,” he says. His body responded in a way that surprised him. “I kind of fell in love with the results that I was getting from it and just kept at it.”

He began eating seriously, upping his protein and overall calorie intake, until his body started to take shape. Remarkable shape.

“The more I trained, the more I found out I had the genetics, in terms of shape, for men’s physique,” he says. “I was hooked.”

As difficult as his experiences were in Iraq, Potvin believes that his Army training, as well as growing up in a military family, helped him stay structured and disciplined. This mindset has carried over into his civilian life and bodybuilding career.

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“It’s a good way to grow up quick,” says Potvin about serving in the armed forces. “The drive to never quit is there in me because of the military.”

Eyes on the Olympia

True to character, Potvin has worked hard and found quick success in the pros after earning his IFBB pro card in 2014. He’s finished in the top five of the Physique Olympia the past two years (third in 2016, fifth in 2017) and is determined to place higher. Potvin is planning on competing 10 pounds heavier this year (165 pounds), but not at the expense of his trademark flesh-and-blood Photoshop look.

“I’m still trying to create the craziest shoulder-to-waist ratio you’ve ever seen,” he says. “Trying to grow wider up top and keeping my waist as small as possible.”

His potential is limitless, but for now, he has no intentions to move up from the physique category.

“My plan is to always progress within bodybuilding and keep growing,” he says. “If I ever outgrow physique, then I’ll definitely make a move.”

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9 Things the Movies Get Wrong About Sex

6/29/2018

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June 29, 2018 at 12:08PM
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The TRX Leg Circuit for Better Stability

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The TRX Leg Circuit for Better Stability

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When To Use It: 

At the end of leg day. If you’re pressed for time, do it on its own as a quick lower-body workout.

Why Do It: 

“Adding these suspension trainer exercises to the end of your workout will give you a final burn,” says Zack Van Wagoner, a trainer and a TRX coach in San Francisco. “These moves also target the smaller stabilizer muscles you might have missed when doing exercises like leg extensions and hamstring curls.”

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Directions: 

Adjust the suspension trainer strap to midcalf. Perform two to four rounds, depending on your level of conditioning, with as little rest as possible. (Try to limit yourself to 15 to 30 seconds between rounds.)

Trainer Tip:

“When performing the three exercises, create as much tension into the foot cradle as possible and brace your core,” Van Wagoner says. “This will improve your balance and control, so you can focus on contracting the targeted muscles fully.”

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June 29, 2018 at 11:54AM
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7 Reasons Sydelle Noel Rocks the Screen in Netflix's 'GLOW'

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June 29, 2018 at 11:18AM
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The Keto Diet: Avocado Cauliflower Toasts

6/29/2018

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The ketogenic diet is on a roll and there’s really no question why it has gained so much momentum both inside the athletic world and out. Dubbed the keto diet for short, this low carb, high fat diet supplies the body with a plethora of healthy fats which are used as energy for our body instead of carbohydrates. This way of eating provides a nutritionally dense vegetable and protein base with high fat energy for us to perform our best while maintaining a slim physique. A keto meal in its most simple form combines a protein, paired with a green vegetable (or other low carb veg) and fats. This series will provide a more inspired approach to these combinations that you can mix and match for a unique ketogenic eating experience.

 

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Cauliflower is the great chameleon of the cruciferous vegetable world. It has the ability to blend into many dishes without lending a ton of flavor. This makes it an ideal suitor for blending with other ingredients to result in a keto style toast. Cauliflower toasts are hand-holdable once cooled and can be made with any variety of topping from melted cheeses or pizza fixings to other savory options.

 

This toast starts with riced cauliflower which is combined with cheese, egg, flax, and seasonings to create a rounded flavor that balances with any topping. For an energy filled meal or snack, top with avocado slices, a protein like tuna or chicken, and a drizzle of healthy fats in the form of spicy mayo or almond sauce. Feel free to top these toasts with any other savory toppings as well.

 

Avocado Cauliflower Toasts

Avocado Cauliflower Toasts

Calories 325, Protein 16g, Total Carbs 13g, Net Carbs 5g, Fat 24g

 

Prep time: 20 min

Cook time: 20-30 min

Serves: 4 slices, nutrition info is per slice with toppings

 

Ingredients:

 

  • 1 head cauliflower, riced (about 3 cups)
  • 1 egg
  • 1 tablespoon flax meal (ground flaxseed)
  • 1/2 cup shredded cheddar, Monterey jack or try smoked gouda
  • 1/4 teaspoon pink Himalayan or smoked salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder or onion powder

 

Topping for two toast slices, spicy tuna:

 

  • 1 avocado, pitted, peeled and sliced into thin strips
  • 2.5 oz tuna packed in water
  • 2-4 tablespoons spicy mayo (or just stir in chili paste into plain mayo to desired taste)
  • 1/4 teaspoon black sesame seeds

 

Topping for two toasts, chicken with almond sauce:

 

 

  • 1 avocado, pitted peeled and sliced into thin strips
  • 1/2 cup cooked chicken, diced
  • 2-4 tablespoons almond sauce (stir together 1-2 tablespoons almond butter, 1-2 tablespoons coconut milk to desired consistency and ½ teaspoon chili paste or to taste)

 

 

Preparation Instructions:

 

  1. Rice the cauliflower by cutting it into florets first and then pulsing in a food processor until it’s the size of rice grains. You may purchase it already riced instead if desired.
  2. Cook riced cauliflower either in a steamer basket or via microwave about 7 minutes until soft.
  3. Let cool until cool enough to handle and then wrap the cauliflower in cheese cloth.
  4. Squeeze out as much water as you can. You want this to be as dry as possible so it resembles a crumbly dough afterwards. Working in smaller batches to squeeze it out may be easier for some.
  5. Place the cauliflower in a bowl and mix in the rest of the bread ingredients.
  6. Preheat oven to 450 degrees and line a baking sheet with parchment paper or lightly brush a baking sheet with olive oil.
  7. Divide dough into 4 equal pieces and form them into squares with your hands on the prepared baking sheet.
  8. Bake 15-17 minutes until browned.
  9. Remove from oven and let cool 10 minutes before removing from the pan.
  10. Gently life each toast from the pan and top with desired toppings. Serve immediately.

 

Notes: Bread will get soggy if you use wet toppings and let it sit. If you are not planning to eat it right away, store in an airtight container and apply topping right before eating.





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June 29, 2018 at 07:43AM
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4 Surprising Causes of Bloating

6/28/2018

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June 28, 2018 at 03:17PM
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IFBB Physque Pro Jeremy Potvin's Total Upper-Body Routine

6/28/2018

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“In Iraq, I started working out as a way to relieve my stress,” says Jeremy Potvin, IFBB Pro League men's physique competitor and army vet. Then, his body responded in a way that surprised him.

“I kind of fell in love with the results that I was getting from it and just kept at it.” He began eating seriously and upping his protein and overall calorie intake until his body started to take shape. Remarkable shape.

“The more I trained, the more I found out I had the genetics, in terms of shape, for men’s physique,” he says. “I was hooked.” Since then, Potvin has sculpted a physique akin to those of the Golden Age of bodybuilding. His slim waist and gargantuan upper body look downright photoshopped, but those who follow the men's physique division of the IFBB Pro League know that he's for real. 

To enhance the look of a chiseled, tight midsection underflaring lats and cannonball delts, check out his upper-body-blasting workouts below.

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June 28, 2018 at 12:55PM
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How VR Porn Is Transforming Sexual Experiences

6/28/2018

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Virtual reality porn is here, and it’s only going to get bigger. There’s an unbelievable amount of money being invested in improving the technology behind VR porn. But it’s not only going to affect how we watch and engage with porn, it’s also going to have a big impact on how we have sex in the real world. Here’s what you need to know about VR porn, and the potential ways it will impact human sex. 

What Is VR Porn?

Virtual reality porn is filmed to make you feel like you’re actually in the scene with the porn actors and actresses. Unlike the passive experience of watching 2-D porn, VR porn is designed to be an immersive 360-degree experience. Using special cameras and equipment, VR porn is filmed to make it feel like your head is attached to an actor or actresses’ body. You can look out into the room or down to your VR body, and other characters in the scene approach you and do things to you. So, while you’re not watching a dirty scene unfold in front of you while you stand in the corner of a room, you’re also not making many movements yourself.

How Does It Work?

As of now, the VR porn setup is quite complicated. It requires the usage of a special VR headset, like the pricey Oculus Rift or the budget Google Cardboard. You also have to find specially filmed VR videos, which aren’t very plentiful at the moment. The videos tend to cater almost exclusively to heterosexual men, and typically showcase more vanilla or mainstream sex acts. There are even fewer free VR videos, so you’ll often need to pay for your experience. Many videos require you to download instead of stream them, so you’ll need a lot of space on your computer (and more diligence if you need to remove any evidence from said computer). You may also need to use specialty programs to help you fully venture into the VR world. Some setups can be paired with sex toys, so you can have intercourse or oral sex simulated by a sex toy. There are even add-ons that can release scents into the air, making the experience feel even more immersive. 

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The Negatives

I’ve read a lot of first-person descriptions of watching VR porn, and the general consensus has been that using it was clunkier and less enjoyable than they would have thought. There are the common complaints that any new technology would be subject to, like the fact that almost all VR porn is filmed to be 180 degrees instead of the typical 360 degrees of other VR video. There can also be glitches in the videos, which can ruin the immersive feeling. Your VR avatar has to stay mostly still in the video, so you’re basically just watching one person do all of the work. Although some moments can feel wildly realistic (more on this below), many consumers said the illusion is quickly ruined once the characters actually start having sex. Plus, trying to masturbate while watching a video often feels like it kills the illusion as well. You simultaneously feel like you’re really there and really not there. 

Several authors spoke about an increased paranoia about being caught masturbating with VR porn, since it’s easier to get caught off-guard when you’re lost in your headset, and not as easy to get rid of the evidence if someone walks in on you (no slamming your laptop shut or quickly closing the tab). Feeling more anxious during masturbation could translate to feeling more anxiety during sex itself. 

There’s also the possibility that VR porn can create more performance issues. As a sex therapist, I have been concerned about the effect that watching 2-D porn can have on both men and women alike. Porn is designed to be entertainment, and it’s meant to pull your attention away from yourself and onto the screen. But paying attention to your own body is crucial for being able to control your erection and your orgasm, and even to simply enjoy sex itself. If VR porn makes you feel even more detached from your own body than traditional porn, there could be some serious concerns. 

VR porn also brings up fascinating moral issues. In particular, does watching VR porn count as cheating? If the setup is designed to make you feel like you’re being seduced and a porn star is doing things to you, and you’re meant to feel like you’re actually having sex with someone else, does that make it more intimate than passively watching two random actors get it on with each other? 

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The Positives

On the flipside, there are some exciting potential positive effects of VR porn. Some companies are talking about using VR for sexual education. Programs could be created to help men and women build sexual skills in less intimidating environments. Some videos already guide users through relaxing breath exercises and Kegel exercises, or focus on reminding men to spend more time on foreplay.

As the technology gets more advanced and interactive, there could also be the potential to create live role-playing scenarios where you practice divulging your STI status, asking for consent, or making sexual requests. Or you could even practice skills like performing manual stimulation or oral sex, or trying different sex positions. 

But perhaps the most fascinating aspect of VR porn comes from what many are calling the empathy effect. While users of VR porn have complained that the experience can feel clunky and not as pleasurable as they had anticipated, many have also been surprised to realize that they were most turned on by subtle moments of connection. In particular, a lot of users were thrilled by how intimate it felt to make eye contact with the characters in the films. Another favorite was when the actor or actress came in close to the user’s face, or whispered in their ears. Many users have said they felt more connected to the people on the screens in front of them, and they felt more aroused by those little moments of connection than by the sex itself. 

Whereas traditional porn has gotten more and more extreme, the thrill of VR porn seems to be in the subtle moments. In that way, VR porn may ironically help people get more excited about real-world intimacy. 

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Over Specialization Versus Long Term Development

6/28/2018

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Sport has the power to change the world. It has the power to inspire. It has the power to unite people in a way that little else does. It speaks to youth in a language they understand. Sport can create hope where once there was only despair. –Nelson Mandela

 

Nothing dominates adolescence quite as much as our deep want to belong. It is an overwhelming drive that fuels bizarre and inconsistent behavior. Sometime between middle school and high school, we typically look outside the family to our peer group as we seek to figure out who we are going to be in this world. Some are led to gangs, others to a choir, and many more to sports. Sure our kids get involved in sports for the pure love of play, but as we age and sports require more sacrifice, it is the need to belong and form an identity that makes sport such an overwhelming force.

 

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Whether we like it or not, we seek acceptance as a biological imperative. As Daniel Coyle explains in the Culture Code:1 “The subconscious mind is obsessively looking for belonging cues for survival.” Our biology expected a nomadic lifestyle where we lived in bands of 100 or less, all deeply essential to the group and individual’s survival. We need to belong because if we didn’t, we wouldn’t survive a week. Any number of irrational behaviors make sense when we understand the deeply rooted, bio-evolutionary necessity to connect and be part of a group.

 

When market specialization came, our society’s drift from common purposes that has culminated with deep mental angst and predicated the political polarization wrought by our population’s deep spiritual need for some group identity. At play are two, of Tony Robin’s six, paradoxical human needs that we all will meet:

  1. Connection
  2. Significance 

While these are essential for adults also, it is our youth sports culture that I find to be on the most troubling trajectory.

 

The Heroic Role-Player Archetype

Most adults who still love the strength game started out competing in youth athletics.

Athletics seemingly taught us everything. Regardless of the sport, we learned the power of individuals coming together and striving as a unit towards a common purpose. You could be a less talented player, but through maturity and effort, be invaluable to team chemistry and elevate the play of teammates. The heroic role-player archetype was reinforced daily. We learned to put faith in others and sacrifice for the common good. Belonging was solidified through common adversity, common experience, and by sticking with a core group as we played multiple school sports. We truly were (enter your high school mascot here). There was a tradition. The community rallied around you. We experienced the beauty of one team with one purpose - to win together. Athletes typically shared the seasonal patterns of the year - 1st sport, off-season, 2nd sport, summer workouts, etc. Sports beautifully replicated the tribal human need to belong and served as a context for the transfer of values and rites of passage that have been foundational to all great communities.

 

Certainly, there are exceptions to this simple narrative. Coaches and players could be egotistical and communities might have more readily excused the deviant behavior and poor academic performance amongst athletes. Still, the overwhelming lessons and benefits of youth sports stemmed from personal responsibility, sacrifice, and most of all working on behalf of a group with a common purpose.

 

The modern athletic experience is characterized by very different trends. Youth sports have become big business. Club sports teams, specialty skills coaches, and even sport specific strength training is pushed at earlier and earlier ages each year. Supply and Demand. Today’s overly sanitized childhood does not feature a montage of free play, but rather a comfortable seat and the glow of an iPad. The play is reserved for adult supervision, best accomplished through time-intensive club sports. A shifting parenting paradigm prioritizes giving children the best of everything while eliminating hardship. This overrides previous notions of the parental role being to mold and to create capable, resilient, contribution oriented citizens. Youth are provided everything short of free play, adversity, and humility. Children whose bodies have forgotten how to run are shipped from specialist to specialist, where a lack of physical literacy is compounded by repetitive overuse.

 

The Huge Commitment Demands of Club Sport

Adolescence, club sport is an all-encompassing commitment of time and finances. Coaches are increasingly effective at creating the illusion that specialization is essential. They rely on income streams that cannot withstand the inconvenience of an off-season. Long Term Athletic Development Models be damned. More coaching, more games, more showcases, more everything is the only way for your son or daughter not to be left behind - the only way to give your child the opportunities they deserve.

 

Parents plan their summers around 11-year-old travel ball schedules that land them in a different state each weekend. Every team claims to be elite and every parent becomes convinced their child is exceptional. Lack of playing time can always be resolved by a change of coaches. In this world, the customer is always right. It becomes a badge of honor for families to travel further and sacrifice more of their precious lives to youth sport. Parents chase scholarships for 12-year-olds oblivious to the fact that, in this pursuit, they’ll spend more than college costs. Even those keenly aware that something is awry, resign themselves to the belief that this is what one has to do for their kids to play sports in the modern world. Sally likes softball and this is the only game in town. Except of course it’s a select team three towns over that travels to 12 others states.

 

As the expectations become more insane, many parents simply opt their kids out of youth sports. The Aspen Institute2 looked at six sports:

  1. Basketball 
  2. Soccer
  3. Track & Field
  4. Football 
  5. Baseball 
  6. Softball 

And reported a combined 2.6 million fewer 6-12-year-olds playing these sports between 2008 and 2013. Let’s put this in context. PE, is being removed from schools and obesity rates are skyrocketing, yet parents and families have gone away from athletics. They don’t quit because there aren’t enough banquets and trophies. They don’t quit because the level of competition is too high, in fact, it has been lowered as a consequence of sedentary childhood and a smaller pool of athletes. They don’t quit because of a lack of pomp and circumstance surrounding games.

 

On the contrary, it is the age-inappropriate, seriousness and unhealthy time commitment that drives families away. They quit because 9-year-olds were practicing three nights a week and then having tournaments every Saturday and Sunday. They quit because it's hardly an option to just enjoy playing multiple sports in youth. They quit because family dinners and quality time are real values that should be protected.

 

 

For those still in it, junior high and high school bring the exciting new world of school sports- the opportunity to play with one’s peers on behalf of their entire school. The popular intention has shifted; however, by now, most athletes are conditioned to prioritize individual performance and find team-oriented approaches don’t adequately appreciate their unique gifts. Frustrated parents need to look no further than their bank accounts to find reinforcement that the high school coach can’t assess talent or game plan. Confirmation bias is always available.

 

The student’s schedule is now set on overdrive as their agents, pardon me… parents, fill weekends and evenings at games, practices, and showcases even while their child competes in school seasons. Parents will pay exorbitantly for their kid to get the respect and attention they deserve and with each dollar spent are more convinced that their son or daughter must be highly skilled. After all, that is what they’re purchasing. Faced with an ever-changing cast of teammates, coaches, and advice, youth conclude their individual success is the point. Even those students who completely buy into the team ethos find that the team culture they inherit is far more selfish and less group-oriented than a consequence of the increasingly self-promotion based youth athletic culture. Few groups can overcome the immense parental reinforcement that team is secondary to their baby.

 

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Here is an all too common experience as explained by one California Athletic Director:

 

“It started on Thursday when the all-conference teams were released. Friday morning was spent responding to 3 parent emails that all seemed to know the exact motivation of every single coach that was involved in the voting process. Later that morning, a coach walked into my office and showed me a profanity-laden text message from a parent that was upset about the lack of recognition his kid received in the newspaper. Saturday, I was sitting at an event and was cornered by a parent who had obviously been saving up at least a year of frustration regarding the lack of recognition of her kid’s sport compared to the other sports on campus. If I had to summarize the major talking points of her 10 -minute venting session, I believe the term, blatantly discriminatory, would be a good start. Later that afternoon, one of my coaches had to send a parent back to the bleachers after she decided that the pregame warmup was a good time to discuss her kid’s playing time." 

 

This athletic director goes on to conclude that at least 80% of the concerns brought to him fall in one of two categories:

  1. Not enough playing time.
  2. Not enough personal recognition.

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I do understand the emotion tied up in competitive athletics. My junior year of high school, I was very proud to play fullback and middle linebacker for the football team. Then, in the second game of the season, we were upset badly by an inferior opponent. Our run-oriented offense could not find a hole to run through. The following Monday, Coach Moeller called me in to tell me that I was being moved to tight end, a position in our offense where I’d rarely touch the ball and my blocks would come without a head of steam. I became a glorified offensive lineman. As he explained, “The team needs help on the line. We need you.” That was that. As any self-absorbed teen, I struggled to understand at first. The frustration quickly wore off, however, as I went about learning my new position and having a blast playing ball with my friends. As the emotion dissipated, it became obvious that Coach made the right decision. It was not about me, and, thank goodness, I had such a deep sense of my role that I didn’t distract the team with a narcissistic pity party.

 

In Reality, My Analysis Is Oversimplified. There are wonderful club coaches and invaluable, positive influences throughout the industry of club and select youth sports. As in every field, there are, also, some awful, high school coaches who warrant their criticism. Despite a wide variety of possible individual experiences, my concerns are with the overwhelming direction and cultural influence of modern youth sports. We are stripping athletes of the most vital lessons from sports while also interrupting the ability for sports teams to create essential feelings of belonging. Many would conclude that any opportunity for belonging was eliminated when the stupid coach decided not to put Billy on the varsity. And this is why everyone gets a trophy, every t-ball team has names on the back of the jersey, and college students graduate confused as to why they aren’t immediately promoted to CEO.

 

Entitlement and Delayed Gratificati

Today’s youth athletic culture has become a breeding ground for entitlement, narcissism, and most of all, alienation. It is yet another example of our culture depriving youth of the needs for fulfillment, success, and contribution to a purpose greater than their own promotion. Youth need values, boundaries, the ability to delay gratification, and the impetus to develop a sense of purpose. They need activity, a love of movement, and a sense of discipline. Most of all they need a sense of deep belonging. Not a superficial buddy to perpetuate their “Snap Streak” or an egocentric collection of narcissists happy to justify their every impulse. Belonging is not fitting in. It is being empowered to develop an authentic view of oneself and having that person embraced within a group. It is an organic creation only possible when people care about values more important than themselves.

 

Long-Term Athletic Development

So what do we do? The number of sports that have escaped these trends is shrinking rapidly. Many parents see the warning signs and don’t know what to do. I’d love to see common sense youth sports leagues spring up behind vividly defined, age-appropriate values that cut costs by eliminating designer jerseys, pep-rallies, and ridiculous travel, and that respected the needs of children based on a long-term athletic development model, like Canada’s Sport for Life. High school athletics will only be fixed when enough pressure is put on the NCAA to make the obvious changes that prioritize what is best for athletes and sport. Change depends on people who care enough to work on behalf of a better path for our youth.

 

References

1. Daniel Coyle, "The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly successful groups." Pub. The US, Bantam Books, an imprint of Random House, a division of Penguin Randowm House, LLC., New York 2018.

2. Alice Lee, "7 Charts that Show the State of Youth Sports in the US and Why it Matters,"  The Aspen Institute, Feb 24, 2015.

 





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